Officer No Date | | Posted by anonymous at November 18, 2009 | | Tags: Juvenile problems November 2009 |
My mother can be SUPER strict and when it comes to dating she is like a prison wardon. When i was younger and would ask when i can date she would ALWAYS say at 18 but i knew she was just saying that because she said it always in a joke so i knew it was 16 which i guess kind of sucks for me but i love and mom and if she said 16 then i would wait. Well now with the big 16 coming she says that i CAN NOT date until i'm 18 and that is final. She is treating me like such a child, it's not like i have given her reason to doubt me. Lots of my friends get drunk and stoned every weekend, i like to have fun but i dont go THAT far. The only reason she is doing this is because her love life is really screwed up so she is taking it out on me.And my dad has been MIA since i was born so i have knowone else to turn too. I CAN NOT survive 2 more years of this. |
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She's probably just scared to let you take on such hella responsibility for someone so young as you. If it makes you feel better, i'm 23 years old. I have never had a boyfriend but i seem to attract the wrong kind of men. i've never had any type of valentine's day gifts, no prom date, nothing. men tell me i'm pretty all the time, so what's wrong?
Look at it this way. Your mother wont be in charge of your life forever, you'll be 18 soon and you'll be able to do anything you want to do legally. but ask yourself, do you want a boyfriend becuase everyone else has one or do you really look forward to meeting someone who in many ways is like you but also opposite?
YOur life doesnt suck, youre just in a very frustrating situation, with a very strict mother. i guess you speak to her about your feelings.
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