I'm a male, 13. I cry for no reason every day and night. My best friend and talk buddy has left for the people making my life miserable. I hate my parents. I hate most people (Apart from a small group who i talk to at school.
Someone please help. I feel trapped and need someone who has been through everything i have...
Sometimes being a teen is tough. You will get through it and there will be better days. These people that make your life miserable should pay for their actions. Don't take shit from anyone. Show them you're not one to be messed with.
Boy, how I can relate to you. How would you like to eat your lunch in the bathroom of the school in the basement so you wouldn't get picked on. Try not to hate people, most of them don't realize how they come off, and the world is becoming cynical. I am sure you have much to offer people, but they don't really know you, or you haven't given them a chance. I'm sure your parents think they are doing the best they can, they may have no idea how to relate to a 13 year old. From the small group of friends you have in school, try to build some real friendships. Start by respecting yourself, and then slowly let people see who you are.
I'm sort of in the same boat with you. I'm depressed, and my mother honestly thinks she knows best, even though she's clueless. You just have to deal with what comes at you and hope for the best.
Yep, I've been there. When I was your age my best friend put up the whole class against me, and also the guys I used to play soccer with (I'm from Holland, soccer is big). I guess it was because of my high grades. I was 'different', smarter, wiser. That's probably the reason I felt alone: I saw things I couldn't share, not even with my parents. The thing is: try and find the people that suit you. Few people is enough. Seek another hobby, community or sports to meet other people. They are out there! Probably with the same issue.
Remember: this is a phase, this will go away. The world is ruled by ignorant bigmouthed people, the art is to find the wise-ones.
"I hate my parents. I hate most people"
You must stop this negativity as it actually hurts you more than the people you hate. You must find a way to rise above your resentment.
I hate my parents too, but I found a way to re-invent my life around the concept of accepting myself and therefore more people find me acceptable to them.
Just maybe you have some self-hatred you need to reverse. I did. I realized that I was not as bad as some people made me out to be. I learned to like myself as I am, but still strive for self improvement.
You are definitely not alone...I think what you are feeling is very normal for many teenagers...Its a time of change physical and mental...its normal to feel messed up...even if it is terribly painful. Try to keep positive, get into some hobbies, chat with family/cousins and try to make new friends...I know when I was your age I felt very much the same way...Things do get better and clearer...you'll see...just takes a bit of time. Have faith! You're great! Believe in yourself! :o)
you are just 13. alot of emotional problems happen at that age. trust me, i'm 19 but i remember being pretty depressed and crying (and I still am somehow.) but seriously, you cant change your parents, or other people. the only person you can change is yourself. start training your mind mentally on thinking positively (its hard know) but if you just say good things to yourself few times a day like (i am happy, i am good looking, my life doesn't suck that bad, I will amke the best of myself) you will feel alot better than dwelling on (my life sucks, im depressed, i hate people.)
seriously, you have so much more to live and life would be wasted if we are just always crying and sad right?
hang in there buddy! and remember there are ppl with ya feeling the same feelings! just keep telling yourself good things!!
Just get through high school because it sucks for a lot of ppl, and those kids you go to school with, you wont havta deal with after graduation, get a job, dont get into debt, dont get a credit card, just work for yourself, get your own apt, its just life, this is the way things go, i know, i know...
hey kid get on facebook
the guy who started it was a loner too, people hated him. Look where he is now.
Also the crying part, is man depression, and you need to see someoen about that, go to the school conselor and tell them you feel depressed and also tell your parents. Theres like one pill that can fix that if you really need it.
Everyone feels like highschool is shit. You need to get through it, because theres life after that is far better.
Also there are alternative schools you can go to that have kids in it who are just like you, and they seem to get long just fine. Search for some
yeah i am 12 im a girl but i know how fucked upthings can get and i hate my life and i have to turn away form some people because i simpaly am not good for them. I know what it feels like to fave verything slip right through my fingers . my own sister dosnt even know how messed up i am the only person i had ever said anthing to is my mom and i havent even scrached the serfus of all the things wrong in my life.
Remember: this is a phase, this will go away. The world is ruled by ignorant bigmouthed people, the art is to find the wise-ones.
You must stop this negativity as it actually hurts you more than the people you hate. You must find a way to rise above your resentment.
I hate my parents too, but I found a way to re-invent my life around the concept of accepting myself and therefore more people find me acceptable to them.
Just maybe you have some self-hatred you need to reverse. I did. I realized that I was not as bad as some people made me out to be. I learned to like myself as I am, but still strive for self improvement.
seriously, you have so much more to live and life would be wasted if we are just always crying and sad right?
hang in there buddy! and remember there are ppl with ya feeling the same feelings! just keep telling yourself good things!!
the guy who started it was a loner too, people hated him. Look where he is now.
Also the crying part, is man depression, and you need to see someoen about that, go to the school conselor and tell them you feel depressed and also tell your parents. Theres like one pill that can fix that if you really need it.
Everyone feels like highschool is shit. You need to get through it, because theres life after that is far better.
Also there are alternative schools you can go to that have kids in it who are just like you, and they seem to get long just fine. Search for some
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