So I am a mother of 2 and wife of 13 years and we all love each other and all that is GREAT (my husband has a good job).......but let me tell you the decision to be an at home mom was BAD.......I gave up a GREAT job to be an at home with the kids......and as money got tight stress got MORE........now the kids don't need me as much and now I am not qualified for ANY job.........so now we can NOT pay the bills because 1 JOB is NOT enough! Try to get a job with no education that will let you work around school schedules that pays enough to warrent paying a sitter or after school care.........We lost out house to foreclosure.........and the rental we have costs WAY to much and we are drownding in debt we have to have our parents buy food for us, and don't come close to qualifing for assistance!
As far as work for me goes my car broke down and my friends husband owns a car lot so they got me a car but now I have to work for them to pay it off..........so I work 30 hours a week with no income to pay off the car (that is not working so great)..........I had to beat the crap out of the fuse box in traffic driving my daughter home from my moms house to keep the headlights on.........I cried the rest of the way home! So my husbands whole pay today will go to rent that is a week late.......and I have no clue what to do about the rest of my bills of food.........I am sure there are soooooooo many people in way worse situations but right now MY LIFE JUST SUCKS! | |
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Some of us have real, palpable problems that an "emo" asian teen, like yourself, Shirosaki, wouldn't even dream to understand. Get a job at a burger joint or get involved in volunteer programs, get a sense of what real life is like instead of picking on real people with real problems.
I know this fact all too well, but I am not here to talk about me.
Do you have someone to aid you, family?
Someone that might watch the kids?
If you can get past that hurdle., that makes it easier.
Once you do have the time, don't try and take on the world at one time,. Start slow,... Take a part timr job to help with financial difficulty. Watch every penny earned (The Hard part), when things start looking better financially, start to focus on your goals, ie school, or what it is you want to do..., and don't forget to believe in yourself.
You can do it..
Am I the only one that just thought of Rob Shneider?
lol... You can do it!
um mother of two.. Do the math..
Damn!! I hope that helps! Or makes you laugh. Either, or.
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