Just last night, we fought (PHYSICALLY).
I punched him. He kicked me.
He kicked me in my chest that I flew. And he kicked me on my thigh as though we are doing thai boxing.
I never thought it would turn out this way.
Help me somebody.
I dont know what to do next.
He is not apologetic. He thinks I was the one who irritated him to behave this way.
I dont know what to do.
Should I just pretend nothing has happened? And live life as per normal with him? Or should I demand an apology?
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Lake Windham, B.S., L.C.D.C.
It's "remorse" and "predictor" (not "perdicument") and "their past behavior" (not "there past behavior") and "especially" not "excpellially" and "anything" is one word not two, and "certainly" not "certinally". Good lord.
You are both psychos and deserve each other.
NOW.If this is the first time, it won't be the last. There are programs thru your community and churches that will help you annonymusly.A man that hits will always hit at some point and you can never love it away.Are there children in the household ??? If he doesn't own what he has done,and he doesn't or he would not have said YOU MADE ME DO THIS, he will always do it!!! GET OUT NOW !!!!!
Unfortunately, many women often think they can either "please" their partner or change their partner and make things better. It simply doesn't work. Whatever change you make now, the other person will simply ask for more, then you'll make more changes, but they'll ask for even more. It's a bottomless pit that cannot be filled.
The issue is about control for abusive people, not whether you act the right way. An exception is that some people like to intentionally get at someone until the other person explodes. In that case, you would be just as guilty of trying to control someone.
In either case, resorting to mental or physical abuse on either side will never yield a positive outcome. Don't underestimate how quickly things can escalate out of control. You can choose to "pretend" that things will get better, or move on and possibly live to talk about it another day.
GET THE FUCK OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP.
How's that? :)
Live life as per normal? Well only if your normal life is violent.
Apology? I think you should get out of the relationship, his actions were way out of control.
Oh and if you struck first go get some help with your anger management before you get yourself in more trouble.
My girl friend is a whore and we argue all the time. But I will never lay my hand on her. One time she hit me and called the police because she was so fucked up. I had to make up excuses for the police to let her go.
A real man would not hit a woman, especially the one he loves.
well he jumps up off the chair come to the kitchen put his hands around my throat and chokes me and then headbutts me..
I was packing his lunch for him.. he is going insane.. and I dont know what is next.Im tired of his moods, he always seems happy with other people, but not with me.. I do everything i can to make him happy, i keep a clean house I wash his work clothes and clothes put them in them in closet hung nice and neat, put all his stuff in his chest draws very neat.., I also iron his clothes if they need it, cook his dinners, breakfast,pack his lunch, keep everything clean i even mow the grass i try to help him
, I was so sick last week I had lymph node infection and today Im not feeling well but I go through all the motions.. trying not to let him see Im pain or dont feel good... I have no where else I can go, I have no friends because he dont like no one, i go no where, I dont spend his money, if I do he is with me, I dont run around, i stay home while he works, and keep the place going... yet I get head butted and choked.. he is loosing his mind... we been together 30 yrs married.. he put his hands on me about 5 yrs ago.
but then he did today... im so sick of it.. he is not effectionate man.. if you want a kiss u go to him..he is not a loving man... how i got in this mess I dont know... but I wish I left 30 yrs ago... because life is a drag now.. im 59.. who would want a out of shape sick old woman... im stuck... im sad...
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