My husband hit me

By anonymous at 15,Jul,10 11:12

Kick him in the balls really hard and he will be begging u not to do it again and then he will apologize. :)

By anonymous at 15,Jul,10 18:50

Or cut his balls while he sleeps ;)

By anonymous at 15,Jul,10 12:12

LEAVE HIM! Guys like that dont change. it will only get worse. go back to your family or stay with friends. they will understand! get an injunction against him to stop him contacting you. this is better than getting beaten for the rest of your life - you could end up with serious injuries. somewhere out there is a kind, caring guy who will love you and care for you and not beat the shit out of you. LEAVE HIM NOW.

By Thomas at 15,Jul,10 19:22

Leave the jerk becuase the next he put in the hospital or you will end up dead. I have nevered raised hand or laid finger on Missy. I do want but i compose myelf. I never an thyrt Missy the last guy she was put in the hospital and almost killed her. That will never change I don't some folks can love someone who is abusive. LEAVE LEAVE!

By anonymous at 16,Jul,10 12:07

Sweetie, you need to get out, you didn't mention kids, but I hope that this is not a factor in your life with your husband. There are organizations out there that can help you leave. Please don't believe him if he says it will never happen again. IT WILL.

By anonymous at 17,Jul,10 12:50

About 8 years ago I stayed with an abusive partner, when I was 7 months pregnant he through me down the stair's and I miscarried. No man is worth it

By anonymous at 17,Jul,10 21:50

Leave. He has no real love or respect for you. You deserve better. Change is always hard, but in the long run; you will find someone who really loves you.

By anonymous at 17,Jul,10 22:25

eather get family theropy or just leave him. As a Licenced Counselor, and a realist. You need to leave him. No remorcce is a bad behavior. The best perdicument of a persons behavior is there past behavior, excpellially when they dont admit that they have done any thing wrong, or thet they do not have a problem. Take action. Staying in the middle is certinally worse than the other two extreems. You cannot controll his behavior, but you can take chage of yours.
Lake Windham, B.S., L.C.D.C.

By anonymous at 28,Jul,10 16:03

Licensed counselors can't spell? How did you get your degree?

It's "remorse" and "predictor" (not "perdicument") and "their past behavior" (not "there past behavior") and "especially" not "excpellially" and "anything" is one word not two, and "certainly" not "certinally". Good lord.

By anonymous at 18,Feb,11 03:36

Hahhahaha

By anonymous at 18,Jul,10 15:20

"I punched him. He kicked me." ?
You are both psychos and deserve each other.

By anonymous at 19,Jul,10 09:17

You should get out
NOW.If this is the first time, it won't be the last. There are programs thru your community and churches that will help you annonymusly.A man that hits will always hit at some point and you can never love it away.Are there children in the household ??? If he doesn't own what he has done,and he doesn't or he would not have said YOU MADE ME DO THIS, he will always do it!!! GET OUT NOW !!!!!

By anonymous at 19,Jul,10 15:23

leave him! also report him....

By anonymous at 19,Jul,10 19:52

Abusive people will try to convince you that "their" bad behavior is your fault. Or, that if you would simply act the way they want you to, then they would behave better.

Unfortunately, many women often think they can either "please" their partner or change their partner and make things better. It simply doesn't work. Whatever change you make now, the other person will simply ask for more, then you'll make more changes, but they'll ask for even more. It's a bottomless pit that cannot be filled.

The issue is about control for abusive people, not whether you act the right way. An exception is that some people like to intentionally get at someone until the other person explodes. In that case, you would be just as guilty of trying to control someone.

In either case, resorting to mental or physical abuse on either side will never yield a positive outcome. Don't underestimate how quickly things can escalate out of control. You can choose to "pretend" that things will get better, or move on and possibly live to talk about it another day.

By anonymous at 28,Jul,10 23:58

Sounds like you both have issues and the physical fight was a 2 way street. Also, sounds like you should end it and find something more peaceful. Good luck.

By anonymous at 29,Aug,10 21:08

Uh. Here's a suggestion:

GET THE FUCK OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP.

How's that? :)

By anonymous at 13,Oct,10 19:30

LEAVE HIM BEFORE HE KILLS YOU, IDIOT!

By anonymous at 13,Oct,10 19:30

You are so god damn helpless! Leave him

By anonymous at 02,Nov,10 08:16

You can not pretend this didn't happen, it did and you need to deal with it.
Live life as per normal? Well only if your normal life is violent.
Apology? I think you should get out of the relationship, his actions were way out of control.

Oh and if you struck first go get some help with your anger management before you get yourself in more trouble.

By anonymous at 20,Jan,11 22:54

DEMAND A DAMN APOLOGY GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM HIS ABUSIVE ASS. YOU DESERVE BETTER LEAVE RIGHT NOW! GO TO THE HOUSE OF RUTH OR CALL THEY, THEY CAN HELP YOU......RIGHT NOW

By anonymous at 10,Feb,11 19:42

looks like you started the fight. Let him leave you before you make things worse, bitch.

By anonymous at 30,Apr,11 00:23

Please leave now i mean now sweetie before its too late since this is an older thread i hope you rid of the asshole and safe.

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By didiwastemylife.myopenid.com at 29,Mar,12 18:19

What do you think? Is this the life you want? It does not get better, it gets worse..and then worse still. If you want to live with all your teeth .. leave. If you don't mind watching your life go down the tubes .. then stay. Think for yourself.

By anonymous at 20,Apr,12 09:50

Leave him. It will happen again and again. Especially if he is not apologetic. Trust me. I have seen it before.

My girl friend is a whore and we argue all the time. But I will never lay my hand on her. One time she hit me and called the police because she was so fucked up. I had to make up excuses for the police to let her go.

A real man would not hit a woman, especially the one he loves.

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